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The Power

July 8, 2012 By Michele Woodward 4 Comments

 

I’d like to be able to say that the last week has led me into deeper awareness, spiritual growth and humility.

Yeah, I’d like to say that.

But I can’t.

Because, see – there was this storm called a “derecho” that barreled through our neighborhood with 70 mph winds at about 11pm on a Friday night:

and my family and I were plunged into darkness, with only:

 and


which I had purchased either for Y2K, or after 9/11. We cranked that radio up and listened to the all-news radio station until none of us could keep our eyes open – and we fell asleep in the basement, the coolest place in our house.

Because I may not have mentioned that there was also a heat wave. Heat indices topped 105 degrees during the day, and fell back to the low 80s at night. So, it was hot, and there was no air conditioning, no cold drinks, no ice cream.

The only relief inside the house came on a feeble breeze which, if you were laying on the couch in a certain configuration, you might just feel. Slightly.

Like panting dogs, every day we did a lot of laying around, because exertion made things worse.

From time to time, we’d get in the car and drive, to power up the phones and take advantage of the air conditioning. These drives were depressing – store after store after store, closed. No power. Grocery stores – closed, with all the perishable stock thrown out. Restaurants – closed, having lost all of their refrigerated stuff. Gas stations closed – did you know some stations rely on power to make their pumps work? One night I drove over 10 miles in the dark “below empty” because I couldn’t find an open gas station.

Wide swaths of my area were dark at night, and then you’d find one lonesome block with a McDonald’s, a gas station, a 7-11 – mysteriously supplied with power. Packed to the gills. People waiting. People slightly shell-shocked. Slightly panicked. Below empty.

As each day passed, day after miserable day, my scope of focus got smaller and smaller. Would we have power that day? What would we eat? Could we get ice? Where could we get ice? Was Subway going to be open so we could get a sandwich? If not Subway, then where? Were my kids ok? Over-stressed? Dehydrated? Was it going to be possible to sleep that night? Which hotels are open? Should I have made reservations? Should I now? Were we going to have enough clean clothes? Were my dogs overheating?

I realized that I had slipped to the bottom of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs:

when I’m usually spending my life way up at the top.

Funny, that.  We work, work, work on our own personal development and growth and then something comes along to knock us back down to basics.

Finally, on Tuesday after days of suffering, I found a hotel that would take us in for two nights. Of course, the power came back the next day.

That’s the way it works, y’all.

Oh, I’d like to say that making it through multiple days without power during a heat wave was the most illuminating and fulfilling Thoreau-type moment of my life.

But that would make me a liar.

Because it was hard. It was hot. It was a challenge.

Five nights and five days of scorching heat, and little relief. Believe me, I was not thinking of personal growth – I was thinking about water.

And ice cubes.

And how quickly everything can change from the top of the pyramid to the bottom.

And how if you’re focused on whether you’re going to eat, sleep, drink or … not, it’s really hard to do much else.

Maybe there is a lesson there, after all.

 

 

Filed Under: Authenticity, Clarity, Happier Living, Uncategorized Tagged With: Derecho, Maslow's Hierarchy of needs, Mid-Atlantic derecho, power, power outage

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  1. Claudia Hall Christian says

    July 8, 2012 at 8:03 pm

    I’m so sorry you went through this. I’m even more sorry that, like in Katrina, you and your more rural neighbors were left on your own to figure a way out. I would have thought FEMA would step in. Where was the media? It’s a little scary to see how much we’ve let the basic care of each other slip to the priority of the basic care of the dollar.

    I’m glad you have electricity. I know that, being who you are, you will find meaning in this. I’m grateful your children had you to shepherd them through another crisis. In their lives, they will face many. They have a great role model.

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  2. Dana Boyle says

    July 9, 2012 at 5:01 am

    I think the lesson there is that really, most of it is meaningless. At the end of the day some of us are thriving but only because we rely on resources and services that we take for granted and that, if they are completely wiped out, take us right to the bottom rung where we realize we put our pants on just like everyone else and life really is fragile without the basics.

    It’s good to know how to survive when and if something like that happens.

    Your experience made my husband buy a generator and stock us up with some things that are helpful in situations like that. Not sure how much it might help, but it’s a lesson for everyone.

    Glad you’re through it and I was sorry to see you and others having to deal with that.

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  3. Dana Boyle says

    July 9, 2012 at 5:05 am

    Gosh, Michele, and as I hit post comment I thought this:

    AND it is a lesson for us that when we spout off about opportunity that everyone has in this country or on this planet, and how we create our reality or circumstances, while I still think that’s mostly true, having this experience helps us realize that it’s those resources and services…having those basics covered and even some luxuries covered…that allows some of us to thrive, have intimacy, esteem and actualization. Without the basics we couldn’t think of the rest, and there are many among us who can’t think of more than ice, water, whether they will eat today or not, etc.

    Lots of lessons there.

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    […] list from my Amazon order list and rather sketchy memory. I do know that during this summer’s Derecho storm, where we went without power for five days, I reached into my bookshelf for something(s) to read […]

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